Conflicts | Boundaries | Visions

I counsel you through conflicts, guide you through farewell and grief – and support you in times of reorientation and new beginnings.

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What moves you?

Individual Session

Guidance through personal experience

For inner conflicts, grief, loss and times of reorientation. When the familiar no longer sustains, space for clarity, orientation and personal accompaniment is needed.

Transformative Mediation

Clarity in relationship

When tensions, misunderstandings or conflicts arise between people. A shared space in which issues are clarified, attitudes shifted and new forms of understanding and relationship become possible.

Vision Development

New direction in life and design

When ideas take shape and new paths emerge. A space in which new perspectives for life, living and design arise. Clarify ideas, think further and develop them into visions — create beauty and atmosphere.

Vera Lanz – Mediator

My Path

Mother of four grown sons. Shaped by architecture. Mediator by vocation. Master of Theology by conviction.

I am driven by the question of how we deal with conflicts, what role our origins, culture and relationships play, and how we search for stability and meaning in times of crisis.

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MA Theology, LMU Munich
2019 Certified Mediator
4 Sons, a lifetime of experience

“In a personal relationship conflict, Vera guided me. She helped me understand the dynamics and needs of each person involved and make new decisions. This brought greater clarity and peace for all of us.”

— Steffani

03 Blog

Thoughts & Impulses

Two zebras in conflict

March 2026

Why Conflicts Are Not a Weakness

On the courage to see conflicts as opportunities rather than threats.

February 2026

Peter Paul Rubens, Allegory of Peace

Peter Paul Rubens, Allegory of Peace, c. 1630/32, Bavarian State Paintings Collections – Alte Pinakothek.

Why Revenge Does Not Heal and Humility Is Not Weakness

When we are hurt, we often want retaliation. But revenge does not heal – true strength lies in a different attitude.

Being seized by love through humility?

January 2026

Being Seized by Love Through Humility?

Christian humility is often seen as degradation. Theology offers a different picture – and what this means for our understanding of inner freedom in vulnerability and love.

Conversations clarify

For personal matters, team conflicts or questions about collaboration in organizations, I offer a free initial consultation. Write me a brief message. I’ll get back to you within 48 hours.